Haha well in my free time flipped through this so called article by a journalist about his nice guy friend who doesn't have a gf yet(that's not the important thing) but rather the next thing which was kind of weird. His 2 female friends who are having boyfriends that cheated or are still cheating on them yet they contemplate marriage with these guys stating reasons like they hope their boyfriends can change. Well, i don't think that's possible since they have already done that multiple times. You can always think that maybe during marriage they might stop but how sure are you? And what makes these girls continue having hope and not leaving their bad boyfriends? Even recent news, a girl can stand her abusive boyfriend for a year even before leaving him in hopes he will stop abusing her and become less possessive (he apparently restricted all contact with guys for the gf). They had some term for that abuse..hmm damn it can't remember now!

The old phrase (Nan Ren Bu Huai, Nu Ren Bu Ai) comes into place here. But that is definitely not in the case course i'm sure there are girls still who find nice guys to be with well considering my 2 army buddies haha they are the nice guys with i hope good girlfriends haha.

But it could be something about Singapore's society. We are to used too our comfort zone(me being one of them of course). And that could be at least one of the reasons i can think about it now. I mean one of my army friends has this female friend who has this bad boyfriend who obviously doesn't treat her very well but she sticks by him. The reason she gave my friend? She's comfortable with him or rather in a sense that it's been a long time and she refuses to change and move on.

Women, the mysterious creatures of earth.

Haha I should take note of the thing called comfort zone and take risks when i should. Of course after careful calculation first haha! Same goes for my police job. Trying something i'm not familiar with at all is risky but is worth it for fulfiling my childhood dream? When i put on the Military police badge i'm already fulfiled with a sense of pride! Haha..what more a real police one heh.

All right, 21st bdae here u come

SZ has 3 more hours to book in after his extended MC! :P