Saturday, December 27, 2008

Life sure is fragile..you never know what will happen at anytime. Maybe you meet up with your friend and see him today but next week, he's lying in a coffin. That's exactly what happened to my section mate, my bed buddy in bmtc. I'm pretty shocked he's gone, as i was hoping he would have woke up from his coma. Imagine we were chilling out on Saturday and Sunday he was involved in an accident by a bloody fucking drunk driver who banged his bike. He ended up in a coma and when i was able to book out for the christmas holiday, i went to visit him in hospital. It was a saddening sight seeing him hooked up onto life support. Just stationary looking like he's in alot of pain. Told him to fight hard and wake up ASAP so as to ask me to clean my rifle (Ah..it's a long story but he sleep talks that's all you need to know) and telling him to wake up so that we can meet up soon. Little did i know that will be the last time i see for the next thing you know, he was declared brain dead on friday and his family decided to pull the plug for his lifesupport.

Going to his funeral today was emotional as this is the first time i'm attending a friend's funeral. Seeing the family members and his girlfriend makes me feel it's such a pity that a guy who is only in his 20s, makes me wonder what had he done to deserve such a fatal accident. I just hope they are able to take it and move on in time.

Thinking about the memories of him with us in bmt almost brings tears to my eyes. Though it was a short 3 months knowing him, we've went through thick and thin together. It's so sudden that he'll never smile, laugh, talk, move, etc again. I just hope that wherever he is at now, he'll always be at peace.

May your loved ones get through these difficult times. See them through wherever you are. Protect them. If you can read this in heaven, if you ever need help from us to help your loved ones, find us in our dreams. I'm sure each and everyone of our section mates will do whatever we can to help them.

Hong Jun Jie. Ulysses 4309. You will be missed. R.I.P.

To all those who are reading this post, please cherish your loved ones or if you had anything you wanted to say and have been holding back, please please just say it out. The person you see today, might not exist tomorrow. Don't wait till it's too late and then you regret.

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